DOMMING FOR DUDES
The Ultimate BDSM Course for Men Who Are Ready to Lead
Ready to Dom Like You Were Born For It?
Go from “curious” to confident Dom
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Do you crave stepping into dominance but aren’t sure where to start—or how to do it in a way that feels confident, sexy, and ethical?
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Domming for Dudes is your gateway into conscious, empowered dominance. Whether you’re brand new to BDSM or already experimenting but wanting to level up, this self-paced online course gives you everything you need to embody your role as a Dominant man—with clarity, confidence, and skill.
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Ready to master the art, psychology, and power of true Dominance?
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Click below to enroll and gain immediate access to Domming for Dudes + all bonus classes and resources.
Lifetime access to all course materials
Instant access after purchase
Learn at your own pace
$149 one-time payment
For just $149, you’ll gain lifetime access to a complete Dominance training package taught by bestselling author and BDSM coach Emily Anne, known as the “Kink Whisperer.”
"After taking your Domming for Dudes class, my husband finally really dommed me! I am so grateful!"
- A very happy submissive
You’ve read the books, watched the videos, and you know the basics of BDSM—but when it comes to stepping up and taking charge, do you still feel:
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Unsure of your inner direction or purpose as a Dom?
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Hesitant to give clear, powerful commands, defaulting to requests?
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Afraid of coming across as a "fake Dom" or disappointing your sub?
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Stuck in the physical "topping" without engaging in the deep psychology and energetics of dominance?
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If you answered "yes" to any of these, Domming for Dudes is the program for you.
You're a good man, and your submissive is rooting for you. But she needs a Leader—a man who provides containment, structure, and unwavering confidence so she can fully let go and surrender.
This is the course that transforms you from a hesitant Top into a confident, trustworthy, and deeply satisfying Dominant.
Why This Course?
Why This Course?
Dominance isn’t about yelling orders or copying porn tropes. True dominance is about embodiment, confidence, communication, and presence.
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Through this course you’ll learn:
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How to step into your dominant energy with authority (without being an asshole)
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The difference between leading vs. controlling
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How to command attention and obedience with your voice, body, and energy
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Creative ways to punish, reward, and play with your submissive
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How to maintain ethical, consensual, and deeply satisfying power dynamics
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How to navigate bratty subs and keep the dynamic hot rather than frustrating
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Questions to ask a potential sub to ensure compatibility and safety
What You Will Achieve Inside Domming for Dudes
Forget BDSM 101. This program is an intensive dive into the inner and outer dominance required to forge a deep, intimate, and powerful D/s bond. You will:
Build Unshakeable Confidence: Learn that true confidence comes from deeply knowing yourself and understanding your sub's needs and limits.
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Master Containment: Discover how to provide the strong masculine frame your sub craves, allowing her to fully surrender without falling into the "void".
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Go Beyond Topping: Understand the difference between simply giving an action (topping) and embodying the intention and juice of dominance.
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Set the Scene Perfectly: Get a step-by-step blueprint for scene setup and execution, including how to nail the first five minutes to create immediate immersion and tension.
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Own Your Beast: Learn to safely and honorably embody your primal, shadow side—the "beast" that your sub is excited to meet—while still protecting her from your worst impulses.
The Complete "Domming for Dudes" Online Course
This evergreen program gives you lifetime access to over 6 hours of specialized training, handouts, and essential guides, all taught by top BDSM Coach Emily Anne.
1. Core Training: Domming for Dudes: How to Be A Great Dominant
This class lays the foundation, covering the psychological and energetic essentials of masculine dominance.​
​The true meaning of a DOM as a leader and decider.
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Consent fundamentals and the “Four Kinky Agreements” to govern your play and communication.
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How to debrief and provide essential aftercare so the kinky experience reinforces your bond every time.
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A step-by-step guide on how to set up and execute a scene, from practical prep to flow and improv.
2. Masterclass: The Art of Command
Stop asking questions and start issuing commands. This class teaches you how to project a strong frame and create the structure your sub needs.
How to use call and response to reinforce your authority.
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Why open-ended questions ruin the mood and how to structure your prompts instead.
Techniques for Dom texting to build anticipation and set the perfect pre-scene tone.
3. Masterclass: Punishments and Funishments
Discipline is a key part of your sub’s service and pleasure. Learn how to use it effectively and safely.
The importance of follow-through and why failing to deliver expected punishment is demoralizing to your submissive.
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How to outline consequences for failure to comply—before the scene even begins.
Balancing correction, discipline, and affirmation.
4. Bonus Class: All About Brats
If your submissive likes to push back, you need tools to maintain your frame.
Understanding why brats test your frame and how to respond with strength and integrity.
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Techniques for maintaining your containment against resistance and defiance.
5. Downloadable Handouts: Sample Commands and Texts
Take the guesswork out of communication. Get immediate scripts for use in and out of the scene, including powerful third-person language.
6. BONUS Downloadable Guide: Vetting a Potential Submissive
You need a sub who is a match for your needs. This guide provides the critical questions you must ask to find out the truth about their limits, desires, and trustworthiness.
Meet Your Instructor
Hi, I’m Emily Anne — BDSM Coach, Kink Educator, and Co-founder of TheBDSMCoaches.com. I’ve taught thousands of people how to confidently step into the Dom/sub dynamic through my live and on-demand workshops and coaching sessions.
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I come to this work as an experienced Switch, though my natural wiring is that of a Submissive. I’ve been underneath all kinds of Dominants—soft, strict, clueless, divine, and everything in between. Some were unforgettable. Others… taught me exactly what not to do.
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That experience showed me what makes a submissive melt—and what makes her shut down.
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Because here’s the truth: the best Dominants don’t perform power—they radiate it.
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In Domming for Dudes, I act as your stand-in submissive, giving you the honest, uncensored truth about what opens us, earns our trust, and makes us ache to obey. I’ll help you drop the performative Dom act and instead embody the kind of grounded authority that makes submission feel irresistible.
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And yes, I know what it’s like on your side, too. I’ve spent years mastering dominance with submissives of every gender—learning how power, presence, and precision can turn a single command into pure electricity.
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By the end of our time together, you’ll feel that current humming in your veins—not pretending to be a Dom, but becoming one.
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Enroll Now and Stop Faking It
You deserve to feel confident, powerful, and masterful in your D/s dynamic. Your sub deserves a leader who knows exactly how to make her surrender a deep, delicious, and safe experience.
The Full "Domming for Dudes" Program
6+ Hours of Video Classes
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4 Comprehensive Modules
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2 Essential Downloadable Guides
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Lifetime Access to the Evergreen Course
One-Time Investment: $149